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Are you loving yourself enough? How many times a day do you smile to yourself? How many times do you look in the mirror and give yourself a wink of appreciation and say "Girl, you are cool and I love you!" Take pride in you. Remember, there is only one "you" in the whole world. You are the only "you" that God made, and the only one with your DNA. You are unique in all ramifications of the word. So you must start learning to love yourself first before thinking of loving an other person

Are you one of those women who are always feeling insecure and suspicious of everything and every move made by their partner? Do you keep wondering whether he loves you or is seeing some other woman. This line of thinking can only come from a woman who is insecure, not sure of herself, and obviously doesn't appreciate her worth. Otherwise, why should you sit and be wondering whether a man loves you, and fearing he may be seeing another woman. All you need is to "force" him to concentrate on you! In fact, you need to actually learn how to love yourself when your spouse doesn't.

If you dress up yourself properly, put on a cool mature perfume, look elegant, feel good from the inside, radiate an aura of confidence on the outside, personify high self-worth and have this I-am-happy-with-myself-and-I-don't-give-a-damn-what-you-think smile, how could your man think of looking at another woman? You wouldn't even think about it because you are too happy and full of fun to think of something as spirit-dampening as that. Your partner will simply love you more as you give him no choice.

Having said that, loving yourself to bits is not the only ingredient required to create a successful love relationship. However, loving yourself can transform you from a sulking, suspicious, forgettable character to a radiant, confident and lovable person whom everyone will like to chat with, and no man can ignore that.

Therefore, in conclusion, you should take note of these points:

1. If you want a man to love you, you must first love yourself and have confidence in yourself. This includes appreciating yourself, looking after yourself or even pampering yourself. You are worth it!

2. To achieve mutual trust in your relationship, you must totally trust yourself. If you don't  trust yourself, how can you expect others, your very love to trust you? You should not expect your love to have faith in you when all you do is sulk and accuse him of not loving you any more. So you must first have trust and faith in yourself before you can expect him to have same in you.

3. You must believe in you. You must believe that there is this super cool babe within you. You must believe that you are special and capable of achieving great things, and that you are good enough to make your partner proud. A very special you is the kind of woman every man adores and will want to keep for ever.


4. If you have not been doing this, look at the mirror daily and tell yourself, “You are great and I love you!” Psychology teaches us that loving yourself fills you with confidence and brings out the hidden radiance in you. If you are happy with yourself, your happiness will pull others towards you, including your partner. But if you are forever grumpy,.. you can complete the sentence.
Most women think that it is selfish for one to love oneself. Some even go to a great length to prove that they are not being selfish by denying themselves of even bare necessities. They don't want to be labelled egotist, proud, rude, show-off. After all, they don't want to loose their friends. Really? Welcome to reality.

The absolutely most important gift you can possibly give yourself is loving yourself. Do you really think that you can love anyone without learning to love yourself first? You need to appreciate yourself before you can appreciate another person.

You need to love looking good before you can understand if another person should look good. You need to smell nice before you should complain that another person does not smell nice. The list is endless.
5. Respect Yourself. Listen, to expect other people to respect you, you must first prove that you deserve respect. The more respect you have for yourself, the more respect others will have for you. Look, act and feel important and you will make people see you as that. But look, act and feel unimportant and you bet that's how people will see you.

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